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Rape Discrimination

By Toufic Barakeh

London http://sayitonline.net 25/07/2010  Sabbar Kashur, a Palestinian native of Jerusalem, met a Jewish woman in the holy city in 2008. He introduced himself as a single Jew looking for a serious relationship. The two had sex in a nearby building.
The woman filed a criminal complaint after learning Kashur was Arab, not Jewish. Prosecutors acknowledged that the sex was consensual, but accused him of misrepresenting himself.

Kashur was sentenced to 18 months in prison by an Israeli court last Monday after being convicted of "rape by deception".

The court agreed, sentencing Kashur despite acknowledging that his case was not "a classical rape by force".

"If she hadn’t thought the accused was a Jewish bachelor interested in a serious romantic relationship, she would not have co-operated," the judges said in their ruling.

It is not clear what the judge meant by “serious romantic relationship”. Is it a pledge of some sort to live happily ever after to be separated only by death or say divorce or separation? Or was it an engagement in an erotic affair resulting in immediate urge for sex in a nearby building?

Yet naughty Kashur had rendered himself lonely and isolated in his prison. Politically motivated activists would rate his case as trifle and not many will volunteer to defend him. Religious groups, Islamists, Jewish and Christians, would consider him as a double sinner: liar and adulterer.

Lovers beware. Do not lie to a potential sex partner; to avoid facing criminal charges for 'deceit rape'!

touficbarakeh@sayitonline.net

Toufic Barakeh
http://sayitonline.net

London, Sunday June 3, 2007

I belong to nakba (meaning disaster) generation. To explain, Palestinians belong to two categories: nakba referring to those who were forced to leave in 1948 and naksa (meaning disappointment) refers to the more than 350,000 Palestinian refugees who fled for Jordan consequent to the 6-day war that broke out on June 5, 1967. I was at the time working in Riyadh, the Saudi capital. Like most Palestinians, I spent all the time listening to Sawt Al Arab (The voice of Arabs), a most popular radio station broadcasting from Cairo and directed to All Arabs. Ahmad Saeed, a most popular radio commentator `renowned for his impressive, enthusiastic and masculine voice promised his listeners an ultimate victory. We started to make plans to return to our village Saffouriah; and that my father would, at last, resume eating pomegranate, which he had grown in his farm. After our forced departure in 1948, my father pledged by way of an oath on the Quran that he will never eat pomegranate so long he is out of Palestine. He could not see himself buying the fruit that he used to give away for free. Ahmad Saeed was wrong. This war round lasted only 6 days and instead of returning to our stolen village and farm, the remaining part of Palestine was lost, along with parts of the three Arab states that went to war: Egypt, Syria and Jordan including the rest of Jerusalem.  That war shocked the whole Arab world. When the war broke out, I remember, a gathering to support the warring Arab countries held in Riyadh and attended by the late King Faisal. The crowd pleaded to their king shouted “Cut the petrol, Abu Abdullah”. He announced that volunteers were on their way to fight along with our other brothers. When after the war, Egypt said sarcastically that they were very slow and they never arrived. The Saudis responded that they were not slow but the war ended fast!

The 40th anniversary of the 6-day War between the Arab states and Israel is marked by continued troubles and frustration all over the region. The prospects of lasting peace, despite Arab regimes desperate initiatives are bleak, cold and cloudy.  It did, initially, sound as though this instant winning was a final victory for Israel and a humiliating defeat for the Arabs. Forty years on, Israel continues to be doomed in engaging itself to decades of further conflict, seizure of Arab land, and condemning millions of Palestinians to a life in exile or under military occupation. Consequent to this war, Israel has tripled its territory and changed the political landscape of the Middle East. Lamenting what the “prize” of the (occupation) West Bank and Gaza has brought, Jonathan Freedland commented lately in the Guardian: “My great fear is that Israel like a homeowner who has built two extra rooms on shaky ground: in wanting to keep hold of the extension, he risks losing the whole house.”

 

Al-Jazeera TV entitled its series of coverage of the 6-day war anniversary as “the open wound”. In the absence of a fair settlement, this wound is destined to continue fatally bleeding. It is depressing that, despite their influence, the US and the European Union did not act with authority and responsibility to progress comprehensive peace; and, through their inaction and slow motion, they made matters worse. Boycotting Hamas and cutting the Palestinian Authority’s financial aid, could be construed as a punishment of the Palestinian people for their choice of a democratically elected government.  

 

Amidst Israel state of joy over its quick triumph and the Arab states sense of helplessness and inability to get over their defeat, the Palestinians decided that they should be responsible for their own destiny. The bitter struggle continues. The checkpoints, thousands of Palestinian prisoners and victims, speak about themselves. The suffering of the Palestinians remains an upsetting hallmark of the Middle East’s everyday life.  Israel rigid attitude contrasted by weak non-assertive submissive Arabic regimes is creating a serious vacuum that could lead to the collapse of Palestinian Authority resulting in chaos all over the region.

 

Nowadays, Israel seems mainly concerned about the rocket attacks and speaking of escalation, targeting murder of Hamas leaders including Prime Minister, Ismail Haniyeh; instead of seizing the opportunity and accepting peace generously offered by the Arab states. This does not work. They have been there before murdering Hamas founder and leadership!

 

So was the 1967, 6-day war a victory or a disaster for Israel? Firstly, that war is not over. Secondly, none of its political aims, if any, was achieved.  Thirdly, the series of sub-wars and the threat of all out war, suggest that they might have won a round; not a war!

 

To conclude in a personal note, my parents did return to their farm; as visitors. That in itself was a personal disaster. When in one of the series of wars that followed 1967 six-day war, Israel invaded Southern Lebanon in 1982; my parents lived in the south a hill called Shawakeer. I was in London. My British friends and business associates shared my concern on their safety. John Curtis, a great and loyal friend who was delegated by British Smelter to help in setting up DUBAL, Dubai Aluminium, which I then sorted its insurance, wondered if he should call on the British Foreign Office to help ensure their safety. I felt that this would single out my parents from their neighbours and they won’t accept or forgive me to act so selfishly. So I had to decline. Aside from a flying bullet that pierced through my mother’s hand while watering her beloved vegetable plants which she always insisted to grow in her very limited space, they survived that invasion. But someday, a car sent by our many relatives who did not leave Palestine in 1948, came and summoned them for a visit. They took along the house key which they had held onto for 20 years then. After crossing to Palestine he ate his favourite fruit, pomegranate. The visit to the site of the bombed house was heartbreaking. The trees were replaced by a fruitless jungle. Saffouriah was deserted. The only thing left is the old small church which, it is said, dates back to the day of Christ. The whole population of the village were Muslims. This fact never affected either the church or the villagers who lived together in love and peace. The nuns recognised my parents and they hugged and all cried and cried. My father did not survive that and not long after his return to the South of Lebanon, he had stroke and died.

 

It is hard to write an episode on factual details of your personal life. Yet, I might write again on being and living as a Palestinian. This is particularly difficult as it forces you relive such painful events. Unless you have been a victim, you will never understand how it feels!

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Did Future TV’s Chef Ramzi include Pork in his Recipe?cheframzi.giffuture_logo.gif

Future TV logo

London, http://sayitonline.net 24 December 2006: In an unprecedented move for an Arab TV, as far as we know, Lebanese Future Television broadcasted a Christmas recipe which included suspected porky items in its daily programme presented by Chef Ramzi Nadim Shwayri (photo above). The chef did not say the word khenzeer (Arabic for Pork) or ham directly but used a French word jambon and Parma; referring anonymously to Parma ham.

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Saad Hariri, MP, Head of Future Parliamentary Bloc - Rafic Hariri, assassinated former premier, with wife Nazek

Analysis:

It strange for a TV station that is popular in the Middle East especially in Saudi Arabia. Moslems forming the majority of its audience would be dismayed and disappointed. This applies to all and has nothing to do with nowadays popular clichés like Islamists, extremists or fundamentalists. It is a well know fact that eating pork is haram (strictly and specifically forbidden) in Islam; and observed by all Moslems including nonconformists. For chef Ramzi to assume that some of Future’s watchers are ignorant is rather devious and naive!   

 

It is common knowledge that Future TV was founded by former Prime Minister Rafic Hariri who was assassinated in an explosion that targeted his motorcade on a Beirut waterfront road, and declared as a victim of a criminal act and a martyr of the entire nation. His son, Saad Hariri, MP is The Head of the Future Parliamentary Bloc which along with their allies control majority bloc in the Lebanese Parliament and cabinet.

 

Is the inclusion of pork in their recipe an incidental error or political? The former assumption is defeated by the fact that the porky recipe was re-broadcasted, at least, once. The latter could emanate from that each of the two Lebanese major political blocks, severely opposing and challenging one another, are now racing to have the support of the country’s Christian population.

Such tactic, if used, is not a winner and in no way comes under tolerance or acceptance of another!

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The National Lottery

THE NATIONAL LOTTERY 
P O Box 287 WATFORD,
WD18 9TT 
UNITED KINGDOM
(Customer Services) 
FROM: UNITED KINGDOM NATIONAL LOTTERY.
WINNING NOTICE FOR CATEGORY "A" WINNER
BONUS LOTTERY PROMOTION PRIZE AWARDS WINNING NOTIFICATION
Dear Lucky Winner, 
We are pleased to inform you of the result of the just concluded annual final draws of UNITED KINGDOM NATIONAL LOTTERY international Lottery programmes. The online cyber lotto draws was conducted from an exclusive list of 100 e-mail addresses of individual and corporate bodies picked by an advanced automated random computer search from the Internet, no tickets were sold. After this automated computer ballot, your e-mail address emerged as one of two winners in the category "A" with the following winning information:

REF No: UKNL-L/200-26937
BATCH No: 2006MJL-01
TICKET No: 20511465463-7644
SERIAL No: S/N-00168
LUCKY No
:
6 - 26 - 28 - 35 - 42 - 43 - 38 

You as well as the other winner are therefore to receive a cash prize of £850,000.000 Pounds ( eight hundred and fifty thousand pounds only) each from the total payout.
Your prize award has been insured with your e-mail address and will be transferred to you upon meeting our requirements, statutory obligations, verifications, validations and satisfactory report. To begin the claims processing of your prize winnings you are advised to contact our licensed and accredited claims agent for category "A" winners with the information below:
To file  your claim, please contact the processing agent;
Mr
ADRIAN MANN

Email: national_lotteryclaims_agent@yahoo.com.hk
NOTE: You are also required to indicate what means you would prefer your winning remitted to you, either:
1. Your winner cheque couriered to you
2. You receive your winning by telegraphic transfer from our associate bank to your bank account.
Remember to quote your reference information in all correspondence. You are to keep all lotto information away from the general public especially your reference and ticket numbers. (This is important as a case of double claims will not be entertained). Anybody under the age of 16 and members of the affiliate agencies are automatically not allowed to participate in this programme.
Please note;
You are hereby advice to send us the following;
1. Your full name and address
2. Your personal phone and fax number, and
3. Your winning numbers.
4. Your Occupation and Age
5. Your Nationality and Country
6.  Amount won
7.  Date received
Reply to this confidential email account:national_lotteryclaims_agent@yahoo.com.hk 
Congratulations once more from our members and staff and thank you for being part of our promotional programme.
Sincerely,
Ms. Susan Anderson.
for UK NATIONAL LOTTERY.
NOTE: You are to contact your claims officer immediately.
TO CLAIM YOUR PRIZE,
Simply contact our claims agent,
Mr ADRIAN MANN
Email:national_lotteryclaims_agent@yahoo.com.hk                         
to file  your claim .
Please quote your reference, batch and winning number which can be found on the top left corner of this
notification as well as your full name, address and telephone number as to help us locate your file easily.

For security reasons, we advice all winners to keep this information confidential from the public until your claim
is processed and your prize released to you.

This is part of our security protocol to avoid double claiming and  taking advantage of this programme by non-participant or unofficial personnel.
Congratulations, once more from the entire Management and Staff of UKNATIONAL LOTTERY Cooperation to all our  lucky winners this year. Thank you for being part of this promotional lottery programme.

Kind Regards,
Interactive Customer Care


Please do not reply to this email as this is an automated email account and replies cannot be monitored,
please contact our claims agent.

www.national-lottery.co.uk


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How I Won and Lost £850,000.00

An Authentic Personal Experience - Part 1

By: Toufic Barakeh

Published 04 October 2006

 

On Mon 02/10/2006 morning, I had one important thing in mind.  Nisrine[1] just had a fresh appointment and I must send flowers to be delivered to her office the same day, to catch up with the occasion. On opening my laptop, I noticed,  that I have got the above email; which I would like to appeal to my readers to read very carefully.

 

I saved it, read and re-read it, noted all names and address mentioned and set to prepare a reply. I said to myself: What is going on? Can this matter of winning this amount of money divert your attention from completing the flower order to Nisrine? Had a greedy nature just revealed itself? Wait a minute, but I can do both. Doesn’t the email say “Winning notification {FINAL ATTEMPT}”? So the National Lottery would have been trying to reach me with the good news. I would have probably been ignoring and deleting their emails considering them as junk email coming from deceptive sources. So, I have very carefully prepared and sent a reply to Mr ADRIAN MANN Email: national_lotteryclaims_agent@yahoo.com.hk giving all the information required; thanking the National Lottery for transforming my life and asking him to send the money by cable transfer to my bank account.

I simultaneously completed the florist’s order. Money and winning should not allow us lose our selves or lose touch with the good things in life! You see I am a noble winner and would not allow the money to change my nature!

And I sat waiting for a response to my email making sure that my mobile and land phones are kept within reach; in order to answer instantly once they told me the money moved to my bank account!

In part 2 that will be published shortly, I shall tell you, my dear readers, the remaining part of this experience and how I lost this substantial winning. Meanwhile, I would kindly request other lucky winner/s who may have got a similar message to email us on their experience.

 



[1] Nisrine Barakeh, Employment solicitor, Editor’s daughter

 

 

How I Won and Lost £850,000.00

An Authentic Personal Experience - Part 2

By: Toufic Barakeh

Published 07 October 2006

I spent that morning and early after noon waiting for Mr. Adrian Mann, from the National Lottery, telephone call or email; confirming that the money is being transferred to my bank account. I wanted to fully concentrate on this most important matter. I tried, gently but nervously, to dismiss any attempts from the family or any other source, to engage me in any other issue. While waiting, I naturally mused on what to do next after this bonanza have suddenly fallen on me.

 

First and foremost, I should pay the zakat. This is a 2.5% which a Moslem should pay to the poor, needy and good causes on his capital subject to certain qualifications. I believe this is a halal (clean and legal from an Islamic view point) money coming from the National Lottery. I did not even buy a ticket; as the email suggested, so there is no gambling factor. (I do though buy a ticket on line for each draw; and accordingly I have a small account with them). Having decided on the matter of zakat, I started to muse on other matters mostly family. An important part should go into buying a house.  Hilal[1] should have facilities to pursue his music talents and his little place like an elegant café. Nisrine and Hassan[2] both need new cars. There’s Nadia’s[3] wedding in November. We should extend the guest list and provide air tickets and 5* accommodation for relatives and friends flying for the occasion. And so on.

Series continues – watch out for part 3 and last – coming shortly

Notebook



[1] Writer’s son

[2] Writer’s son

[3] Writer’s daughter

How I Won and Lost £850,000.00?!

An Authentic Personal Experience - Part 3

By: Toufic Barakeh

Published Sunday, 15 October 2006

 

Mr. Adrian Mann, from the National Lottery did not telephone or email; confirming that the money is being transferred to my bank account. At about 2:00 PM of that special morning of Monday 02 October 2006, I decided to telephone my self. I went back to the National Lottery email published on the site (Read it in Diary) to get the telephone number. There is no telephone but it is reassuring that there is a full address, not that far from where I live:

THE NATIONAL LOTTERY 
P O Box 287 WATFORD,
WD18 9TT
 

UNITED KINGDOM
(Customer Services) 

www.national-lottery.co.uk

 

I called the telephone directory enquiry service 118500. They said that the number which must be dialled in full is 08459100000. I dialled the said number, it is true. It is a National Lottery number but did not get through to Mr. Mann. I subsequently got one more number from the directory: 01923425000. I dialled and got a response, a human response, not a recording. I did not have to wait that long. They are decent and smart at the National Lottery! They know how to deal with winners and would be millionaires like me and do not keep them indefinitely on the hold boring them with a series of commercials and music. Then I heard the telephone being referred to Adrian Mann. You are beautiful Mr. Mann. You are  all beautiful at the National Lottery! So it is not a sham! Who said it is a sham?!

 

Series continues – watch out for part 4 and last – coming shortly

To Read Parts 1 & 2, please go to: Diary

 

My dear reader: I am due to go to hospital now for a minor operation; hence my inability to finish this series at part 3 as promised. I am rather detailed about this National Lottery experience because, in my opinion, it does serve a sensible purpose. Please email us mailto:comment@sayitonline.net on any life experience that you wish fellow patrons at http://sayitonline.net to share.

My hospitalisation is expected to last for less than week. Hence I shall not be making any editing during this period. Please, in the meantime, keep visiting to update your self on all interesting and challenging issues of our world. The following pages are updated all the time with news and views:

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We trust that you will find in them something amusing, refreshing and enlightening to read. Here we remember what William Randolph Hearst once said: ‘News is something somebody doesn’t want printed, all else is advertising’. We, at http://sayitonline.net, do not provide you with a flow of uncensored news with no regard to whether some body doesn't want printed. We express our own opinion in Editorial Comment page. We always welcome your comments and views.  

I wish you, our many readers around the world, good health and look forward to resume writing shortly. (To comment or email me: mailto:touficbarakeh@sayitonline.net)

 

Yours sincerely,

Toufic H Barakeh

Editor  

What the National Lottery is doing to stop this crime against their clients and the public at large?

How I Won and Lost £850,000.00?!

An Authentic Personal Experience - Part 4 (Final)

SHAM!

By: Toufic Barakeh

Published 11 December 2006

 

Regrettably, the whole thing was a sham. Adrian Mann is real and this is his correct name. He works for the National Lottery. He was ready and quick to say that I did not win anything! He recommended that I speak to the local police. "But why all that?" I asked “It is just somebody is trying to get your details” He said. When I asked about the responsibility of the National Lottery and what they are doing to stop or reduce the damages caused by sham emails sent in their name? I got no answer.

 

I called the local police. They recommended that I call my Bank, and report the incident to website http://www.iwf.org.uk/ run by the Internet Watch Foundation, “the UK hotline for reporting illegal content”.

 

I have ever since been showered by similar emails from all over the world. They are urging me to claim a fortune of winning. They seem to have been motivated by my detailed account of this sham. The senders, the least to say, are ignorant and silly due to the idiotic nature of their emails and that they should have known that I and others are not going to be bitten twice. Their fraud is of inferior quality as they are not in any way close to the nearly perfect nature of the email behind this story - published with this series. So, I would request these small fraudsters to stop this nonsense.

 

This would naturally lead us again to question: Why the National Lottery does not seem to be doing any thing to stop fraudulent acts committed in their name?!  

 

To Read Parts 1, 2 & 3 please go to: Diary

 

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Editor: Toufic H Barakeh, ACII, Chartered Insurance Practitioner mailto:touficbarakeh@sayitonline.net